At the end of the day the people who are working hard to make the game playable for people like you do not need these passive aggressive threads towards them as it's incredibly disheartening. The server is in the stress test phase so problems like this are expected as there is alot of work that has to be done. Moved.
As we are currently in the stress test I have a strong hunch that some of the members on your team are actually experiencing problems connecting themselves meaning they disconnect before the match has even been set up.
Unfortunately your stuff will not be returned to you as this is stated in the open stress test thread as these issues do happen commonly however the problem you are facing does sound a bit odd so i'm going to leave it here and hopefully the Devs will figure out what has happened.
Yeah this is currently in the known issues thread as we are currently only in the stress test this type of stuff does happen where a card or bfp itself goes missing.